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		<title>Tomorrow&#8217;s Cities</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 22:45:36 +0000</pubDate>
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“Tomorrow’s Cities”, a succinct  and inspiring film (15 minutes long),  presents a compelling and easy to understand account of the major  developmental challenges facing our cities in South Africa and more  broadly cities of the global south. Framed within these challenges, the  film unfolds [...]]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/8030989">Tomorrow&#8217;s Cities</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/user1939334">Luke Younge</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>
<p>“Tomorrow’s Cities”, a succinct  and inspiring film (15 minutes long),  presents a compelling and easy to understand account of the major  developmental challenges facing our cities in South Africa and more  broadly cities of the global south. Framed within these challenges, the  film unfolds a vision, through the voice of a school child and exciting  use of animation, and proposes practical solutions towards achieving  breathable, sustainable, equitable and low carbon urban futures.</p>
<p>The film is intended as a learning tool to raise  discussion and  awareness and ultimately inspire action toward the development of  sustainable and equitable, low carbon cities.</p>
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<p>Younge, Luke. &#8220;Tomorrow&#8217;s Cities.&#8221; <em>Vimeo, Video Sharing For You</em>.  N.p., 7 Jan. 2010. Web. 8 July 2010. &lt;http://vimeo.com/8030989&gt;.</p>
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		<title>CNA Qatar Strategic Planning Process (Phase 1)</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jul 2010 22:24:15 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>A brief overview of Phase 1 of the CNAQ Strategic Planning process using Appreciative Inquiry.</p>
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<p>hfriesen123. &#8220;CNAQ Strategic Planning (Phase 1) overview.&#8221; <em>YouTube -  Broadcast Yourself. </em>. N.p., 29 June 2010. Web. 8 July 2010.  &lt;http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ofl0GmnnoYI&gt;.</p>
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		<title>The End of Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 19:16:55 +0000</pubDate>
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Earlier this year, women became the majority of the workforce for the  first time in U.S. history. Most managers are now women too. And for  every two men who get a college degree this year, three women will do  the same. For years, women’s progress has been cast as a [...]]]></description>
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<address>Earlier this year, women became the majority of the workforce for the  first time in U.S. history. Most managers are now women too. And for  every two men who get a college degree this year, three women will do  the same. For years, women’s progress has been cast as a struggle for  equality. But what if equality isn’t the end point? What if modern,  postindustrial society is simply better suited to women? A report on the  unprecedented role reversal now under way— and its vast cultural  consequences</address>
<p>Author: <a href="http://www.theatlantic.com/hanna-rosin/">Hanna Rosin</a></p>
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<p>I<span style="text-transform: uppercase;">n the 1970</span>s  the biologist Ronald Ericsson came up with a way to separate sperm  carrying the male-producing Y chromosome from those carrying the X. He  sent the two kinds of sperm swimming down a glass tube through  ever-thicker albumin barriers. The sperm with the X chromosome had a  larger head and a longer tail, and so, he figured, they would get bogged  down in the viscous liquid. The sperm with the Y chromosome were leaner  and faster and could swim down to the bottom of the tube more  efficiently. Ericsson had grown up on a ranch in South Dakota, where  he’d developed an Old West, cowboy swagger. The process, he said, was  like “cutting out cattle at the gate.” The cattle left flailing behind  the gate were of course the X’s, which seemed to please him. He would  sometimes demonstrate the process using cartilage from a bull’s penis as  a pointer.</p>
<p>In the late 1970s, Ericsson leased the method to clinics around the  U.S., calling it the first scientifically proven method for choosing the  sex of a child. Instead of a lab coat, he wore cowboy boots and a  cowboy hat, and doled out his version of cowboy poetry. (<em>People</em> magazine once suggested a TV miniseries based on his life called <em>Cowboy  in the Lab</em>.) The right prescription for life, he would say, was  “breakfast at five-thirty, on the saddle by six, no room for Mr. Limp  Wrist.” In 1979, he loaned out his ranch as the backdrop for the iconic  “Marlboro Country” ads because he believed in the campaign’s central  image—“a guy riding on his horse along the river, no bureaucrats, no  lawyers,” he recalled when I spoke to him this spring. “He’s the boss.”  (The photographers took some 6,500 pictures, a pictorial record of the  frontier that Ericsson still takes great pride in.)</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: x-small;"><strong>In this video</strong>: In this family feud, Hanna Rosin and her daughter, Noa, debate the superiority of women with Rosin&#8217;s son, Jacob, and husband, <em>Slate </em>editor David Plotz</span></p>
<p>Feminists of the era did not take kindly to Ericsson and his Marlboro  Man veneer. To them, the lab cowboy and his sperminator portended a  dystopia of mass-produced boys. “You have to be concerned about the  future of all women,” Roberta Steinbacher, a  nun-turned-social-psychologist, said in <a href="http://www.people.com/people/archive/article/0,,20088689,00.html">a  1984 <em>People</em> profile of Ericsson</a>. “There’s no question that  there exists a universal preference for sons.” Steinbacher went on to  complain about women becoming locked in as “second-class citizens” while  men continued to dominate positions of control and influence. “I think  women have to ask themselves, ‘Where does this stop?’” she said. “A lot  of us wouldn’t be here right now if these practices had been in effect  years ago.”</p>
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<p>Ericsson, now 74, laughed when I read him these quotes from his  old antagonist. Seldom has it been so easy to prove a dire prediction  wrong. In the ’90s, when Ericsson looked into the numbers for the two  dozen or so clinics that use his process, he discovered, to his  surprise, that couples were requesting more girls than boys, a gap that  has persisted, even though Ericsson advertises the method as more  effective for producing boys. In some clinics, Ericsson has said, the  ratio is now as high as 2 to 1. Polling data on American sex preference  is sparse, and does not show a clear preference for girls. But the  picture from the doctor’s office unambiguously does. A newer method for  sperm selection, called <a href="http://www.microsort.net/">MicroSort</a>,  is currently completing Food and Drug Administration clinical trials.  The girl requests for that method run at about 75 percent.</p>
<p>Even more unsettling for Ericsson, it has become clear that in  choosing the sex of the next generation, <em>he</em> is no longer the  boss. “It’s the women who are driving all the decisions,” he says—a  change the MicroSort spokespeople I met with also mentioned. At first,  Ericsson says, women who called his clinics would apologize and shyly  explain that they already had two boys. “Now they just call and [say]  outright, ‘I want a girl.’ These mothers look at their lives and think  their daughters will have a bright future their mother and grandmother  didn’t have, brighter than their sons, even, so why wouldn’t you choose a  girl?”</p>
<p><em>Why wouldn’t you choose a girl?</em> That such a statement should  be so casually uttered by an old cowboy like Ericsson—or by anyone, for  that matter—is monumental. For nearly as long as civilization has  existed, patriarchy—enforced through the rights of the firstborn son—has  been the organizing principle, with few exceptions. Men in ancient  Greece tied off their left testicle in an effort to produce male heirs;  women have killed themselves (or been killed) for failing to bear sons.  In her iconic 1949 book, <em>The</em><em>Second Sex</em>, the French  feminist Simone de Beauvoir suggested that women so detested their own  “feminine condition” that they regarded their newborn daughters with  irritation and disgust. Now the centuries-old preference for sons is  eroding—or even reversing. “Women of our generation want daughters  precisely because we like who we are,” breezes one woman in <em>Cookie</em> magazine. Even Ericsson, the stubborn old goat, can sigh and mark the  passing of an era. “Did male dominance exist? Of course it existed. But  it seems to be gone now. And the era of the firstborn son is totally  gone.”</p>
<p>Ericsson’s extended family is as good an illustration of the  rapidly shifting landscape as any other. His 26-year-old  granddaughter—“tall, slender, brighter than hell, with a  take-no-prisoners personality”—is a biochemist and works on genetic  sequencing. His niece studied civil engineering at the University of  Southern California. His grandsons, he says, are bright and handsome,  but in school “their eyes glaze over. I have to tell ’em: ‘Just don’t  screw up and crash your pickup truck and get some girl pregnant and ruin  your life.’” Recently Ericsson joked with the old boys at his  elementary-school reunion that he was going to have a sex-change  operation. “Women live longer than men. They do better in this economy.  More of ’em graduate from college. They go into space and do everything  men do, and sometimes they do it a whole lot better. I mean, hell, get  out of the way—these females are going to leave us males in the dust.”</p>
<p>Man has been the dominant sex since, well, the dawn of mankind. But  for the first time in human history, that is changing—and with shocking  speed. Cultural and economic changes always reinforce each other. And  the global economy is evolving in a way that is eroding the historical  preference for male children, worldwide. Over several centuries, South  Korea, for instance, constructed one of the most rigid patriarchal  societies in the world. Many wives who failed to produce male heirs were  abused and treated as domestic servants; some families prayed to  spirits to kill off girl children. Then, in the 1970s and ’80s, the  government embraced an industrial revolution and encouraged women to  enter the labor force. Women moved to the city and went to college. They  advanced rapidly, from industrial jobs to clerical jobs to professional  work. The traditional order began to crumble soon after. In 1990, the  country’s laws were revised so that women could keep custody of their  children after a divorce and inherit property. In 2005, the court ruled  that women could register children under their own names. As recently as  1985, about half of all women in a national survey said they “must have  a son.” That percentage fell slowly until 1991 and then plummeted to  just over 15 percent by 2003. Male preference in South Korea “is over,”  says Monica Das Gupta, a demographer and Asia expert at the World Bank.  “It happened so fast. It’s hard to believe it, but it is.” The same  shift is now beginning in other rapidly industrializing countries such  as India and China.</p>
<p>Up to a point, the reasons behind this shift are obvious. As  thinking and communicating have come to eclipse physical strength and  stamina as the keys to economic success, those societies that take  advantage of the talents of all their adults, not just half of them,  have pulled away from the rest. And because geopolitics and global  culture are, ultimately, Darwinian, other societies either follow suit  or end up marginalized. In 2006, the Organization for Economic  Cooperation and Development devised the Gender, Institutions and  Development Database, which measures the economic and political power of  women in 162 countries. With few exceptions, the greater the power of  women, the greater the country’s economic success. Aid agencies have  started to recognize this relationship and have pushed to institute  political quotas in about 100 countries, essentially forcing women into  power in an effort to improve those countries’ fortunes. In some  war-torn states, women are stepping in as a sort of maternal rescue  team. Liberia’s president, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, portrayed her country  as a sick child in need of her care during her campaign five years ago.  Postgenocide Rwanda elected to heal itself by becoming the first country  with a majority of women in parliament.</p>
<p>In feminist circles, these social, political, and economic changes  are always cast as a slow, arduous form of catch-up in a continuing  struggle for female equality. But in the U.S., the world’s most advanced  economy, something much more remarkable seems to be happening. American  parents are beginning to choose to have girls over boys. As they  imagine the pride of watching a child grow and develop and succeed as an  adult, it is more often a girl that they see in their mind’s eye.</p>
<p>What if the modern, postindustrial economy is simply more congenial  to women than to men? For a long time, evolutionary psychologists have  claimed that we are all imprinted with adaptive imperatives from a  distant past: men are faster and stronger and hardwired to fight for  scarce resources, and that shows up now as a drive to win on Wall  Street; women are programmed to find good providers and to care for  their offspring, and that is manifested in more- nurturing and  more-flexible behavior, ordaining them to domesticity. This kind of  thinking frames our sense of the natural order. But what if men and  women were fulfilling not biological imperatives but social roles, based  on what was more efficient throughout a long era of human history? What  if that era has now come to an end? More to the point, what if the  economics of the new era are better suited to women?</p>
<p>Once you open your eyes to this possibility, the evidence is all  around you. It can be found, most immediately, in the wreckage of the  Great Recession, in which three-quarters of the 8 million jobs lost were  lost by men. The worst-hit industries were overwhelmingly male and  deeply identified with macho: construction, manufacturing, high finance.  Some of these jobs will come back, but the overall pattern of  dislocation is neither temporary nor random. The recession merely  revealed—and accelerated—a profound economic shift that has been going  on for at least 30 years, and in some respects even longer.</p>
<p>Earlier this year, for the first time in American history, the  balance of the workforce tipped toward women, who now hold a majority of  the nation’s jobs. The working class, which has long defined our  notions of masculinity, is slowly turning into a matriarchy, with men  increasingly absent from the home and women making all the decisions.  Women dominate today’s colleges and professional schools—for every two  men who will receive a B.A. this year, three women will do the same. Of  the 15 job categories projected to grow the most in the next decade in  the U.S., all but two are occupied primarily by women. Indeed, the U.S.  economy is in some ways becoming a kind of traveling sisterhood:  upper-class women leave home and enter the workforce, creating domestic  jobs for other women to fill.</p>
<p>The postindustrial economy is indifferent to men’s size and  strength. The attributes that are most valuable today—social  intelligence, open communication, the ability to sit still and  focus—are, at a minimum, not predominantly male. In fact, the opposite  may be true. Women in poor parts of India are learning English faster  than men to meet the demands of new global call centers. Women own more  than 40 percent of private businesses in China, where a red Ferrari is  the new status symbol for female entrepreneurs. Last year, Iceland  elected Prime Minister Johanna Sigurdardottir, the world’s first openly  lesbian head of state, who campaigned explicitly against the male elite  she claimed had destroyed the nation’s banking system, and who vowed to  end the “age of testosterone.”</p>
<p>Yes, the U.S. still has a wage gap, one that can be convincingly  explained—at least in part—by discrimination. Yes, women still do most  of the child care. And yes, the upper reaches of society are still  dominated by men. But given the power of the forces pushing at the  economy, this setup feels like the last gasp of a dying age rather than  the permanent establishment. Dozens of college women I interviewed for  this story assumed that they very well might be the ones working while  their husbands stayed at home, either looking for work or minding the  children. Guys, one senior remarked to me, “are the new ball and chain.”  It may be happening slowly and unevenly, but it’s unmistakably  happening: in the long view, the modern economy is becoming a place  where women hold the cards.</p>
<p>In his final book, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Bachelors-Ball-Crisis-Peasant-Society/dp/0226067505">The  Bachelors’ Ball</a></em>, published in 2007, the sociologist Pierre  Bourdieu describes the changing gender dynamics of Béarn, the region in  southwestern France where he grew up. The eldest sons once held the  privileges of patrimonial loyalty and filial inheritance in Béarn. But  over the decades, changing economic forces turned those privileges into  curses. Although the land no longer produced the impressive income it  once had, the men felt obligated to tend it. Meanwhile, modern women  shunned farm life, lured away by jobs and adventure in the city. They  occasionally returned for the traditional balls, but the men who awaited  them had lost their prestige and become unmarriageable. This is the  image that keeps recurring to me, one that Bourdieu describes in his  book: at the bachelors’ ball, the men, self-conscious about their  diminished status, stand stiffly, their hands by their sides, as the  women twirl away.</p>
<p>The role reversal that’s under way between American men and women  shows up most obviously and painfully in the working class. In recent  years, male support groups have sprung up throughout the Rust Belt and  in other places where the postindustrial economy has turned traditional  family roles upside down. Some groups help men cope with unemployment,  and others help them reconnect with their alienated families. Mustafaa  El-Scari, a teacher and social worker, leads some of these groups in  Kansas City. El-Scari has studied the sociology of men and boys set  adrift, and he considers it his special gift to get them to open up and  reflect on their new condition. The day I visited one of his classes,  earlier this year, he was facing a particularly resistant crowd.</p>
<p>None of the 30 or so men sitting in a classroom at a downtown  Kansas City school have come for voluntary adult enrichment. Having  failed to pay their child support, they were given the choice by a judge  to go to jail or attend a weekly class on fathering, which to them  seemed the better deal. This week’s lesson, from a workbook called <em><a href="http://support.fathers.com/site/PageServer?pagename=QFTOverview1">Quenching  the Father Thirst</a></em>, was supposed to involve writing a letter to a  hypothetical estranged 14-year-old daughter named Crystal, whose father  left her when she was a baby. But El-Scari has his own idea about how  to get through to this barely awake, skeptical crew, and letters to  Crystal have nothing to do with it.</p>
<p>Like them, he explains, he grew up watching Bill Cosby living  behind his metaphorical “white picket fence”—one man, one woman, and a  bunch of happy kids. “Well, that check bounced a long time ago,” he  says. “Let’s see,” he continues, reading from a worksheet. What are the  four kinds of paternal authority? Moral, emotional, social, and  physical. “But you ain’t none of those in that house. All you are is a  paycheck, and now you ain’t even that. And if you try to exercise your  authority, she’ll call 911. How does that make you feel? You’re supposed  to be the authority, and she says, ‘Get out of the house, bitch.’ She’s  calling you ‘bitch’!”</p>
<p>The men are black and white, their ages ranging from about 20 to  40. A couple look like they might have spent a night or two on the  streets, but the rest look like they work, or used to. Now they have put  down their sodas, and El-Scari has their attention, so he gets a little  more philosophical. “Who’s doing what?” he asks them. “What is our  role? Everyone’s telling us we’re supposed to be the head of a nuclear  family, so you feel like you got robbed. It’s toxic, and poisonous, and  it’s setting us up for failure.” He writes on the board: $85,000. “This  is her salary.” Then: $12,000. “This is your salary. Who’s the damn man?  Who’s the man now?” A murmur rises. “That’s right. She’s the man.”</p>
<p>Judging by the men I spoke with afterward, El-Scari seemed to have  pegged his audience perfectly. Darren Henderson was making $33 an hour  laying sheet metal, until the real-estate crisis hit and he lost his  job. Then he lost his duplex—“there’s my little piece of the American  dream”—then his car. And then he fell behind on his child-support  payments. “They make it like I’m just sitting around,” he said, “but I’m  not.” As proof of his efforts, he took out a new commercial driver’s  permit and a bartending license, and then threw them down on the ground  like jokers, for all the use they’d been. His daughter’s mother had a  $50,000-a-year job and was getting her master’s degree in social work.  He’d just signed up for food stamps, which is just about the only  social-welfare program a man can easily access. Recently she’d seen him  waiting at the bus stop. “Looked me in the eye,” he recalled, “and just  drove on by.”</p>
<p>The men in that room, almost without exception, were casualties of  the end of the manufacturing era. Most of them had continued to work  with their hands even as demand for manual labor was declining. Since  2000, manufacturing has lost almost 6 million jobs, more than a third of  its total workforce, and has taken in few young workers. The housing  bubble masked this new reality for a while, creating work in  construction and related industries. Many of the men I spoke with had  worked as electricians or builders; one had been a successful  real-estate agent. Now those jobs are gone too. Henderson spent his days  shuttling between unemployment offices and job interviews, wondering  what his daughter might be doing at any given moment. In 1950, roughly  one in 20 men of prime working age, like Henderson, was not working;  today that ratio is about one in five, the highest ever recorded.</p>
<p>Men dominate just two of the 15 job categories projected to grow  the most over the next decade: janitor and computer engineer. Women have  everything else—nursing, home health assistance, child care, food  preparation. Many of the new jobs, says Heather Boushey of the Center  for American Progress, “replace the things that women used to do in the  home for free.” None is especially high-paying. But the steady  accumulation of these jobs adds up to an economy that, for the working  class, has become more amenable to women than to men.</p>
<p>The list of growing jobs is heavy on nurturing professions, in  which women, ironically, seem to benefit from old stereotypes and  habits. Theoretically, there is no reason men should not be qualified.  But they have proved remarkably unable to adapt. Over the course of the  past century, feminism has pushed women to do things once considered  against their nature—first enter the workforce as singles, then continue  to work while married, then work even with small children at home. Many  professions that started out as the province of men are now filled  mostly with women—secretary and teacher come to mind. Yet I’m not aware  of any that have gone the opposite way. Nursing schools have tried hard  to recruit men in the past few years, with minimal success. Teaching  schools, eager to recruit male role models, are having a similarly hard  time. The range of acceptable masculine roles has changed comparatively  little, and has perhaps even narrowed as men have shied away from some  careers women have entered. <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2248156">As  Jessica Grose wrote in <em>Slate</em></a>, men seem “fixed in cultural  aspic.” And with each passing day, they lag further behind.</p>
<p>As we recover from the Great Recession, some traditionally male  jobs will return—men are almost always harder-hit than women in economic  downturns because construction and manufacturing are more cyclical than  service industries—but that won’t change the long-term trend. When we  look back on this period, argues Jamie Ladge, a business professor at  Northeastern University, we will see it as a “turning point for women in  the workforce.”</p>
<p>The economic and cultural power shift from men to women would be  hugely significant even if it never extended beyond working-class  America. But women are also starting to dominate middle management, and a  surprising number of professional careers as well. According to the  Bureau of Labor Statistics, women now hold 51.4 percent of managerial  and professional jobs—up from 26.1 percent in 1980. They make up 54  percent of all accountants and hold about half of all banking and  insurance jobs. About a third of America’s physicians are now women, as  are 45 percent of associates in law firms—and both those percentages are  rising fast. A white-collar economy values raw intellectual horsepower,  which men and women have in equal amounts. It also requires  communication skills and social intelligence, areas in which women,  according to many studies, have a slight edge. Perhaps most  important—for better or worse—it increasingly requires formal education  credentials, which women are more prone to acquire, particularly early  in adulthood. Just about the only professions in which women still make  up a relatively small minority of newly minted workers are engineering  and those calling on a hard-science background, and even in those areas,  women have made strong gains since the 1970s.</p>
<p>Office work has been steadily adapting to women—and in turn being  reshaped by them—for 30 years or more. Joel Garreau picks up on this  phenomenon in his 1991 book, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Edge-City-Life-New-Frontier/dp/0385424345">Edge  City</a></em>, which explores the rise of suburbs that are home to giant  swaths of office space along with the usual houses and malls. Companies  began moving out of the city in search not only of lower rent but also  of the “best educated, most conscientious, most stable workers.” They  found their brightest prospects among “underemployed females living in  middle-class communities on the fringe of the old urban areas.” As  Garreau chronicles the rise of suburban office parks, he places special  emphasis on 1978, the peak year for women entering the workforce. When  brawn was off the list of job requirements, women often measured up  better than men. They were smart, dutiful, and, as long as employers  could make the jobs more convenient for them, more reliable. The 1999  movie <em><a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0151804/">Office Space</a></em> was maybe the first to capture how alien and dispiriting the office  park can be for men. Disgusted by their jobs and their boss, Peter and  his two friends embezzle money and start sleeping through their alarm  clocks. At the movie’s end, a male co-worker burns down the office park,  and Peter abandons desk work for a job in construction.</p>
<p>Near the top of the jobs pyramid, of course, the upward march of  women stalls. Prominent female CEOs, past and present, are so rare that  they count as minor celebrities, and most of us can tick off their names  just from occasionally reading the business pages: Meg Whitman at eBay,  Carly Fiorina at Hewlett-Packard, Anne Mulcahy and Ursula Burns at  Xerox, Indra Nooyi at PepsiCo; the accomplishment is considered so  extraordinary that Whitman and Fiorina are using it as the basis for  political campaigns. Only 3 percent of <em>Fortune</em> 500 CEOs are  women, and the number has never risen much above that.</p>
<p>But even the way this issue is now framed reveals that men’s hold  on power in elite circles may be loosening. In business circles, the  lack of women at the top is described as a “brain drain” and a crisis of  “talent retention.” And while female CEOs may be rare in America’s  largest companies, they are highly prized: last year, they outearned  their male counterparts by 43 percent, on average, and received bigger  raises.</p>
<p>Even around the delicate question of working mothers, the terms of  the conversation are shifting. Last year, in a story about  breast-feeding, I complained about how the early years of child rearing  keep women out of power positions. But the term <em>mommy track</em> is  slowly morphing into the gender-neutral <em>flex time</em>, reflecting  changes in the workforce. For recent college graduates of both sexes,  flexible arrangements are at the top of the list of workplace demands,  according to a study published last year in the <em>Harvard Business  Review</em>. And companies eager to attract and retain talented workers  and managers are responding. The consulting firm Deloitte, for instance,  started what’s now considered the model program, called Mass Career  Customization, which allows employees to adjust their hours depending on  their life stage. The program, Deloitte’s Web site explains, solves “a  complex issue—one that can no longer be classified as a woman’s issue.”</p>
<p>“Women are knocking on the door of leadership at the very moment  when their talents are especially well matched with the requirements of  the day,” writes David Gergen in the introduction to <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Enlightened-Power-Transforming-Practice-Leadership/dp/078797787X">Enlightened  Power: How Women Are Transforming the Practice of Leadership</a></em>.  What are these talents? Once it was thought that leaders should be  aggressive and competitive, and that men are naturally more of both. But  psychological research has complicated this picture. In lab studies  that simulate negotiations, men and women are just about equally  assertive and competitive, with slight variations. Men tend to assert  themselves in a controlling manner, while women tend to take into  account the rights of others, but both styles are equally effective,  write the psychologists Alice Eagly and Linda Carli, in their 2007 book,  <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Through-Labyrinth-Become-Leaders-Leadership/dp/1422116913">Through  the Labyrinth</a></em>.</p>
<p>Over the years, researchers have sometimes exaggerated these  differences and described the particular talents of women in crude  gender stereotypes: women as more empathetic, as better  consensus-seekers and better lateral thinkers; women as bringing a  superior moral sensibility to bear on a cutthroat business world. In the  ’90s, this field of feminist business theory seemed to be forcing the  point. But after the latest financial crisis, these ideas have more  resonance. Researchers have started looking into the relationship  between testosterone and excessive risk, and wondering if groups of men,  in some basic hormonal way, spur each other to make reckless decisions.  The picture emerging is a mirror image of the traditional gender map:  men and markets on the side of the irrational and overemotional, and  women on the side of the cool and levelheaded.</p>
<p>We don’t yet know with certainty whether testosterone strongly  influences business decision-making. But the perception of the ideal  business leader is starting to shift. The old model of command and  control, with one leader holding all the decision-making power, is  considered hidebound. The new model is sometimes called “post-heroic,”  or “transformational” in the words of the historian and leadership  expert James MacGregor Burns. The aim is to behave like a good coach,  and channel your charisma to motivate others to be hardworking and  creative. The model is not explicitly defined as feminist, but it echoes  literature about male-female differences. A program at Columbia  Business School, for example, teaches sensitive leadership and social  intelligence, including better reading of facial expressions and body  language. “We never explicitly say, ‘Develop your feminine side,’ but  it’s clear that’s what we’re advocating,” says Jamie Ladge.</p>
<p>A 2008 study attempted to quantify the effect of this more-feminine  management style. Researchers at Columbia Business School and the  University of Maryland analyzed data on the top 1,500 U.S. companies  from 1992 to 2006 to determine the relationship between firm performance  and female participation in senior management. Firms that had women in  top positions performed better, and this was especially true if the firm  pursued what the researchers called an “innovation intensive strategy,”  in which, they argued, “creativity and collaboration may be especially  important”—an apt description of the future economy.</p>
<p>It could be that women boost corporate performance, or it could be  that better-performing firms have the luxury of recruiting and keeping  high-potential women. But the association is clear: innovative,  successful firms are the ones that promote women. The same  Columbia-Maryland study ranked America’s industries by the proportion of  firms that employed female executives, and the bottom of the list reads  like the ghosts of the economy past: shipbuilding, real estate, coal,  steelworks, machinery.</p>
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<p>Rosin, H. (n.d.). The End of Men. <em>The Atlantic</em>. Retrieved June  30, 2010, from  http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2010/07/the-end-of-men/8135/</p>
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At 211 degrees, water is hot.
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And with boiling water, comes steam.
And with steam, you can power a train.
One degree more = Exponential results
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<p>At 211 degrees, water is hot.<br />
At 212 degrees, it boils.</p>
<p>And with boiling water, comes steam.<br />
And with steam, you can power a train.</p>
<p><strong>One degree more = Exponential results</strong></p>
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<p>212 Degrees - The Extra Degree. (2009, August 10). <em>YouTube</em>.  Retrieved June 29, 2010, from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=toXX3t6n8Vw</p>
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It&#8217;s time to get over ourselves and Smile &#38; Move.
We need to wake up, be thankful and approachable. We need to complain less and smile more. We need to exceed expectations and have a sense of urgency in our  efforts for others (and be more resourceful &#38; resilient). This is where happiness and great [...]]]></description>
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<p>It&#8217;s time to get over ourselves and Smile &amp; Move.</p>
<p>We need to wake up, be thankful and approachable. We need to complain less and smile more. We need to exceed expectations and have a sense of urgency in our  efforts for others (and be more resourceful &amp; resilient). This is where happiness and great results come from.</p>
<p>Smile &amp; Move is your reminder to happily serve&#8230; a simple  (and fun) way to remind ourselves and others of the core fundamentals we  all know lead to better relationships, work, and results.</p>
<p>Source:</p>
<p>Smile &amp; Move: A Reminder to Happily Serve. (2009, August 10). <em>YouTube</em>.  Retrieved June 29, 2010, from  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=58GRiEj4OHg</p>
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Author: Luke Johnson, Financial Times
Published: May 5, 2010
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<td>Author: Luke Johnson, Financial Times</p>
<p>Published: May 5, 2010</p>
<p>The hour is always darkest before dawn. I have a gut feeling that now  might just be a great time to take the plunge. There is plenty of  negative news about deficits and double-dip recession. But technology  and global markets are creating real advantages for anyone tempted to  give it a go. And a new concern will not be weighed down with the legacy  issues like property and pension obligations that are holding back  incumbent players. Among my reasons why now is the time:</p>
<p>* <strong>The  internet has made it easier to experiment than in the past.</strong> Building  an online presence costs less than it ever did. I just redesigned my  website for less than £2,000 in a few weeks. With that you can reach the  whole world. Yes, the web is crowded, but there are billions of  consumers connected to it who might see your ads or buy your products.  And if your idea fails, too bad - shut the project down and try another;  it is cheaper and quicker to discover what works than at any time in  history.</p>
<p>* <strong>The corporate life seems less appealing</strong> <strong>.</strong> Jobs for life have gone; occupational pensions have gone; and who wants  to slog away in a suffocating hierarchy their whole career? The freedom  and satisfaction of self-employment are hard to beat. Of course there  are risks - but then you might get sacked anyway if you work for someone  else. Starting a company gives you the chance to achieve independence  and self-determination - and if it succeeds, you really will get the  rewards of your efforts.</p>
<p>* <strong>The world needs entrepreneurs more  than ever.</strong> New jobs and wealth creation spring principally from new  companies. I predict governments will do more to encourage entrepreneurs  in years to come - from lower taxes to a reduced regime of bureaucracy.  Every policymaker I speak to understands that only private enterprise  can tackle unemployment and generate the tax we need to deal with our  problems.</p>
<p>* <strong>There is more advice and support than ever before.</strong> Books, online, agencies, magazines - you name it, there are hundreds of  places to go to find ideas, recruit staff, secure premises, source IT,  deal with legal and accounting issues and so forth. There are more clubs  and networks - more ways to access funding, find partners and reach  customers. There are many more role models and mentors around than when I  started out in the 1980s.</p>
<p>* <strong>It is easier to freelance and  subcontract than before.</strong> Virtual businesses are common. Almost  everything can be outsourced - manufacture, R&amp;D, fulfilment,  logistics, administration, IT - you name it. And providing these  services offers endless niche markets.</p>
<p>* <strong>There is talent galore  looking to join in a new venture.</strong> Now is a wonderful time to  recruit able staff. Big business and the state are shedding personnel -  people will be more willing to throw in their lot with an emerging  company than during the good times.</p>
<p>* <strong>Premises and plants are  plentiful.</strong> Rents are lower, machines are in surplus - there is more  choice than there has been for years in terms of premises and equipment.</p>
<p>*  <strong>Redundancy should be a beginning, not an end.</strong> Thousands do seize  the day when they lose their job - and while not all find it a  pushover, for many it allows them to pursue their dream and follow their  passion.</p>
<p>* <strong>Part-time is a way to get going.</strong> When I worked  for others, I moonlighted for several years, participating in various  schemes at weekends, evenings and during holidays. It gave me  experience, confidence and helped generate capital - so I was better  prepared when I left employment for good after a few years.</p>
<p>I  recently became chairman of the Advisory Board of Fast Track, which  ranks Britain&#8217;s fastest growing companies. There I am endlessly  impressed by the vision and energy displayed by the founders of so many  of the companies surveyed. They know it is worth it.</p>
<p>No one  believes starting something from scratch is a breeze. But as Samuel  Johnson said: &#8220;He that labours in any great or laudable undertaking has  his fatigues first supported by hope and afterward rewarded by joy.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Johnson, Luke. &#8220;Now is the Moment to Seize Your Opportunity.&#8221; <em>Financial  Times</em>. N.p., 5 May 2010. Web. 5 May 2010.  &lt;www.ft.com/cms/s/0/3f720290-57dd-11df-855b-00144feab49a.html&gt;.</td>
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		<link>http://companyofexperts.net/biz/2010/04/21/what-do-you-dream/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Apr 2010 17:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
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What do you dream?  What does your dream look like?  My dream is to  give every individual the opportunity to be a student.  My passion is to  provide students the skills to become learners.  Where do we start?   Does every learner learn the same as you?  Some years ago I was asked, [...]]]></description>
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<p>What do you dream?  What does your dream look like?  My dream is to  give every individual the opportunity to be a student.  My passion is to  provide students the skills to become learners.  Where do we start?   Does every learner learn the same as you?  Some years ago I was asked,  &#8220;Did you see Aristotle today&#8221;?  I was taught by Artistotle, not in my  primary years but in those years that followed.  I experienced a series  of lectures, required readings and assessments based what I had  learned.  In most cases we still expect learners to follow Aristotle.   &#8220;Learners vote with their feet&#8221;.  The students of today are no different  than ones of yesterday.  The only difference is they have the  opportunity of choice.</p>
<p>In our K-12 schools the choices range from private, public, charter,  home schooled or online.    Today is yesterday with tomorrow presenting a  different beginning.  Today&#8217;s learner has the opportunity to choose  where they go to learn and how they learn.  A professional acquaintance  asked, &#8220;How do we identify or locate the polished stones&#8221;?  His  definition of a polished stone is a learner that academically excels in  content and subject matter in a specific discipline.  The question is  not, how do we find the &#8220;polished stones&#8221; but how do we create them?   What is your dream today?  My dream is taking a kaleidoscope, holding it  to my eye and &#8220;Imagining more than I can see&#8221;.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Jim Pulliam  retired after thirty-four years of public service in the  California  community college system and four years in the K-12 system in   California. Jim’s professional experience includes serving as a faculty   member, dean, provost and founding Superintendent/President of a   California Community College District.  Jim has been certified by   Company of Experts.net as an Appreciative Inquiry Facilitator. Read <strong><a href="http://companyofexperts.net/biz/company/experts-on-call/jim-pulliam/">More&gt;</a></strong></p>
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		<title>Living Card of Appreciation for Jeanie Cockell</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Apr 2010 16:23:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathy Becker</dc:creator>
		
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Don&#8217;t believe what you read in the newspaper and see on television. People all over the world are achieving their dreams to improve their communities whether that is a school, hospital, or corporation, for profit and non-profit. It  is amazing how many terrific, caring and inspirational people we meet and the stories that we [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Don&#8217;t believe what you read in the newspaper and see on television. People all over the world are achieving their dreams to improve their communities whether that is a school, hospital, or corporation, for profit and non-profit. It  is amazing how many terrific, caring and inspirational people we meet and the stories that we hear from them.  Stories of grace, of style, of engagement - awe inspiring stories. Unique stories  about people and the people that they work with.</span></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; color: black; text-align: left; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">We have an amazing Expert on Call - <a style="color: #003399; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline;" href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=aowcdqdab.0.0.an5y6tbab.0&amp;ts=S0480&amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fcompanyofexperts.net%2Fbiz%2Fcompany%2Fexperts-on-call%2Fjeanie-cockell%2F&amp;id=preview" target="_blank">Jeanie Cockell</a>. Many  of you may know of Jeanie as an Appreciative Inquiry Facilitator and trainer from seeing her name on our website or from stories of success written by those who have worked with Jeanie. Jeanie has that special magical personality that lights up the  room and invites you in to converse and to become friends. People  gravitate toward Jeanie like a hummingbird to a flower. </span></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; color: black; text-align: left; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">We are so fortunate that Jeanie is with us. A few  weeks ago Jeanie was involved in a horrific automobile accident and had a punctured lung, fractured pelvis  and a leg broken in several places (I am not a medical person and do not mind  if anyone corrects me!) It is awesome that Jeanie had no head injuries and  remains positive about her recovery and is already looking ahead to returning to  the work she loves. Working with people and introducing Appreciative Inquiry whenever possible. </span></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; color: black; text-align: left; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Jeanie has physical rehabilitation to relearn how to walk and how long that will be we are not sure of. We just  thought it might be nice to start a Jeanie Cockell Living Card to express our  appreciation and wishes for her return to full health. </span></span></p>
<p style="font-family: Calibri,sans-serif; color: black; text-align: left; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin: 0in 0in 10pt; font-size: 11pt;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Verdana,Geneva,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">To send Jeanie your wishes, please follow this link to <a style="color: #003399; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline;" href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=aowcdqdab.0.0.an5y6tbab.0&amp;ts=S0480&amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fpages%2FLas-Vegas-NV%2FCompany-of-Experts%2F102450463126630%3Fref%3Dts&amp;id=preview" target="_blank">Facebook</a> (click on the discussion  tab) or <a style="color: #003399; font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline;" href="http://r20.rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=aowcdqdab.0.0.an5y6tbab.0&amp;ts=S0480&amp;p=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.linkedin.com%2FgroupAnswers%3FviewQuestionAndAnswers%3D%26gid%3D1864161%26discussionID%3D17919951%26goback%3D.anh_1864161&amp;id=preview" target="_blank">Linkedin</a> - if you are  not a member, you will need to join. Jeanie will be able  to visit her Living Card of Appreciation when she is able and as often as she wants. You may  leave messages as often as you like - check often to see what others have to  say.</span> </span></p>
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		<title>How to Tell Creative Tension From Team Bickering</title>
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Author: Wayne Turmel, bnet.com
Reading the rather contentious comments back and forth between two  readers on a recent blog post (check out How  to Write Emails That Will Get Read) got me thinking. The life of a  project or line manager would be so much better if the team just got  along [...]]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3167" title="conflict between team members" src="http://companyofexperts.net/biz/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/argument.jpg" alt="conflict between team members" width="306" height="203" />Reading the rather contentious comments back and forth between two  readers on a recent blog post (check out <a href="http://blogs.bnet.com/management/?p=392&amp;tag=content;col2">How  to Write Emails That Will Get Read</a>) got me thinking. The life of a  project or line manager would be so much better if the team just got  along and never argued with each other. Right? Not necessarily. Blind  agreement can be almost as destructive to your team&#8217;s success as ugly  friction.</p>
<p>There are times when you feel like a parent on a long car trip. You  just want to turn around and yell, &#8220;If I have to stop this project and  turn around, you&#8217;re both in big trouble!&#8221; Before you step in between  team members, though, you might want to take a deep breath and see  what&#8217;s really going on. Here are four traits to look for that  differentiate creative tension (i.e., positive, constructive differences  of opinion) from unproductive bickering (the workplace equivalent of  your kids calling each other a big cootie head).</p>
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<li><strong>Is the argument about the work? </strong>Smart people don&#8217;t  always agree on the right way to approach a problem, so disagreement is  the only way for differing opinions to get a fair hearing. As the  manager, watch the tone and the language choices. If the wording (spoken  or written) is about the project, you&#8217;ll see inclusive, positive  language: &#8220;our outcomes,&#8221; &#8220;project success,&#8221; &#8220;what this means to the  department is&#8230;.&#8221; If it&#8217;s getting personal and petty,  you&#8217;ll hear &#8220;you  guys in QC,&#8221; or &#8220;Here you go again.&#8221; In simple terms, personal language  means it&#8217;s getting personal.</li>
<li><strong>Are people asking you and others to pick sides? </strong>Public  disagreement, whether on email or on wikis and blogs, might be  unseemly. But you know you really have a problem when you as the manager  start to receive private emails asking you to side with one party or  the other. Don&#8217;t get sucked into the middle of it. First, have them talk  to each other. If you think they can keep it civil, air the  conversation in a more public forum like a discussion thread, so they  can get input from others. Moderate if you have to, and watch for  inappropriate behavior like name calling.</li>
<li><strong>Is it impacting the quality of outcomes? </strong>Your team  doesn&#8217;t have to be best friends, and sometimes competition and  one-upsmanship can lead to great work. When timelines get missed, or the  quality of work suffers, however, it&#8217;s time to speak to both parties  together - out of earshot of the rest of the team. If you have to, speak  to them together and listen to what they have to say.Make sure they&#8217;re  focused on the work and they know how their dispute impacts the team and  their work overall.</li>
<li><strong>How&#8217;s your blood pressure? </strong>You as leader have to  monitor your own reactions, as well as those of the team. Is the tension  starting to impact others? Are they commenting on it to you privately?  What&#8217;s your personal tolerance for conflict? When you have to step in,  make sure you talk about not only the behavior you&#8217;re seeing but how it  impacts you, the team, and the outcome of the project.</li>
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<p>Turmel, Wayne. &#8220;How to Tell Creative Tensions From Team Bickering.&#8221; On Leadership: Management and strategy ideas from executives and thought leaders. CBS Interactive Inc., 26 Mar. 2010. Web. 31 Mar. 2010. &lt;http://blogs.bnet.com/management/?p=665&amp;tag=nl.e713&gt;.</p>
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		<title>How to Lead Under Fire</title>
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Author: Steve Tobak, cnet.com
If you&#8217;re not periodically under fire by your management and peers then your career&#8217;s probably not going anywhere. It&#8217;s sort of like &#8220;no pain no gain.&#8221; If you push the envelope and take risks, then you&#8217;re going to get mercilessly grilled from time to time. That&#8217;s just the way it works. And [...]]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-3158" title="stressed-while-at-work" src="http://companyofexperts.net/biz/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/stressed-while-at-work-300x199.jpg" alt="stressed-while-at-work" width="300" height="199" />If you&#8217;re not periodically under fire by your management and peers then your career&#8217;s probably not going anywhere. It&#8217;s sort of like &#8220;no pain no gain.&#8221; If you push the envelope and take risks, then you&#8217;re going to get mercilessly grilled from time to time. That&#8217;s just the way it works. And if you seriously want to get promoted and make something of yourself, you have to learn to handle it. No, I&#8217;m not talking about growing thick skin and becoming a human punching bag. I&#8217;m talking about learning to handle getting fired upon like a true leader. Everyone will walk out of the room thinking you&#8217;re the next Lou Gerstner or Jack Welch. Okay, maybe not, but they&#8217;ll definitely think more of you and will more readily accept your ideas, proposals, and most importantly, promotions.</p>
<p>How&#8217;d I learn this stuff? By spending much of my career selling innovative strategies to risk averse CEOs, CFOs, and management teams. Sure, I probably came across as whiny and defensive in the early days, but in time I learned the ropes. Here they are:</p>
<p><strong>How to Lead Under Fire</strong></p>
<p><strong>1. Don&#8217;t get emotionally attached to your ideas</strong>. It&#8217;s good to be passionate about your ideas, but if you&#8217;re emotionally attached to them, it&#8217;ll come through when you&#8217;re getting grilled. And managers are incredibly distrustful of ideologues trying to shove things down their throats. It&#8217;s all about positioning. In your mind, you have to be willing to walk away. That little separation will give you the appearance of perspective and poise under fire.<br />
<strong>2. Learn to embrace alternative views</strong>. The best way to respond to most objections is by first embracing them, then explaining why your plan is better or at least equivalent. Again, it&#8217;s a positioning game. But there&#8217;s a subtle but significant difference between, &#8220;My approach is better and here&#8217;s why,&#8221; and &#8220;That&#8217;s an interesting idea; here&#8217;s why I think this might be a better approach.&#8221;<br />
<strong>3. Master the art of zinger retorts</strong>. When you&#8217;re getting grilled there will inevitably be some real zingers. Well, there&#8217;s only one way to beat a zinger and that&#8217;s with a zinger retort. How do you get good at zinger retorts? By getting good at thinking on your feet, which is really equal parts knowledge, experience, preparation, and of course, self confidence. Also, it&#8217;s essential to maintain a sense of humor under fire.<br />
<strong>4. Know your stakeholders.</strong> Of course you need to know your material cold and expect the worst. Unfortunately, that&#8217;s not even close to good enough. You also have to know the stakeholders, aka your audience, and have a pretty good idea of their likely objections. A few one-on-one premeetings are a good idea. Then you&#8217;ll be ready to counter effortlessly.<br />
<strong>5. Never, ever lose control of the meeting.</strong> It&#8217;s your meeting, or at least your time to present, so you&#8217;re in charge and you need to act like it. I don&#8217;t care if the CEO and CFO start going down a rat hole on some mindlessly trivial point. You have to be adept at all the usual techniques for keeping meetings on track, on topic, and on time. Come to think of it, that&#8217;s probably a topic of its own.</td>
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Tobak, Steve. &#8220;The Corner Office mobile edition.&#8221; BNET Blogs mobile edition. CBS Interactive, 25 Mar. 2010. Web. 26 Mar. 2010. .</p>
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